083013 #bunny 2010 The angel of second chances met up with me in a late night donut shop, and said, "how would you like to just go ahead and be a girl now. You know," the angel reminded me with a serious eyebrow, "you used to fantasize about that." the angel paused. "in your twenties." as if i didn't know. But no, i said no. "why?" asked the angel of incredulity. "because i don't want to give up the fine aroma of being a guy, sitting around with other guys, where you can just say horrible stuff you don't really mean. I mean, it sounds dumb, but i just would never want to give that up." I don't know if i could ever explain it to an angel.