072703 #bunny All I can say for sure is he was a little gruff. Wore three days' stubble like a badge of honor. Was my friend. We drank together. Made up stupid poem phone messages apart but together. When I got home from drinking, utterly alone, his would be the voice on my answering machine (answering machine!) that would say poetry to me without even trying. I was not supposed to be in love with him but I was.