112313 #mistress Beware the carefully constructed compliment. It won't be too doting, as that would be too obvious and you would be disgusted. It will have just enough truth in it, be just barely earnest and uninformed enough to make you feel superior and stroked. It's too easy. That's one of the signals. Until she learns how to make it hard. But if you get that far in, you're already messy with fuck.