022613 #worm You have to be sharp, sharper dressed than they, you have to have subtly immaculate fingernails, just enough scalp showing at the temple, just the right amount of frown, that shows you're in control. They are, as soon as they abdicate the upper hand by walking in here dressed in anything even remotely slack and sitting down, essentially your slaves. Their only choices now are to capitulate or to run away.