Thing to ask here is what will I learn from this, about what help is, what that means, how much I should or can do it. For whom, and why, and for how long, and at what price, and what it is about other people's needs that can become threatening, and what to do about that, and to whom do we owe the bonds of kinship, and why, and what that means, and what about what we have to tell ourselves about who we are and why we will or will not step out of our way to take in a part of another person's risk, and what it means to be "good" and what it means to be helpful or to care about others, and how our personal narratives square with our observable actions, and why we came up with myths like Jesus--outsourcing goodness and sacrifice maybe? Somehow selfishness seems less selfish--or at least less sinister--if it's honest. Now let's go deliver some mail to bunch of nra-lovin god-fearin rural white folks.