It's a fine line between finding where you fit in or "belong," and waiting to find something without any hard parts. Look, yes, if you're contemplating something without hard parts, YOU ARE FANTASIZING, pure and simple. But what if the hard part was also somewhat invigorating instead of draining? What if it was, say, "face the shyness and fear of looking dumb," instead of "deal with daily soul-crushing tedium?" (2014)